Whom to believe (Part 2)

A discussion of some thoughts I've had about God and the afterlife, continued from Part 1.

What if you died suddenly as a result of a freak accident or just died naturally without any warning? Would a forgiving and good God make you suffer in a burning hell for all eternity? I cannot believe that anyone doesn’t commit what they call a sin verbally or by some thoughts from the time they get up to the time they go to bed.

Good and evil are all around us, day and night. In the past I have seen manifestations of some people that have passed away. I had lived in a house that had a ghost in it and she appeared to me when I looked in the front window when I had initially went to rent this house. At night when I lived there, I could hear her walking in the kitchen moving pots and pans. The lights were coming on by themselves in the day time, the radio was turning off or on by itself. One day my granddaughter came out of the bathroom shaking and white as a sheet, saying that someone called her name while she was in the bathroom. Myself going in to take a shower I could feel a cold draft in that bathroom going in to it. I have witnesses to all this.

My point is that there are so many unknowns about the afterlife, and when I ask about whom to believe when they tell us what they think, it's because I think no one really knows anything about it.