I found a new way to lose friends without saying anything to them. I say that because sometimes it's good to rid yourself of people who claim to be your friend but really just want things from you. Anyway, all you have to do is to lend them money and then they don't want to pay it back (or they can't afford to pay it back) so they stay away.
Those are the type of people that come along and say can you lend me $10 or $20 until my welfare money comes in? But when their welfare comes in, they forget where you live. Just one thing that they do wrong; they forget that if they had to borrow before their welfare came in they will probably have to borrow again. Well my door will not open for them they can starve if they must.